'Straightness, just like gayness, is an individually defined subjective reality,' Baratz says. Identities like 'straight' and 'gay' may seem concrete and permanent, but in fact, research shows they're subjective and can change over time. There isn't a universal definition for any sexuality.' 'One person who identifies as gay may also have sexual or romantic feelings for women. 'Just because someone identifies as straight doesn't mean that they can't and will never have romantic or sexual feelings for an individual of the same sex.' This fluidity goes both ways, he adds. 'The reality is sexuality is expansive and diverse,' Baratz says. But does that mean only ever liking women? Not necessarily. 'Traditionally, being 'straight' refers to one's sexual and romantic interest as being in the opposite sex,' New York sex and relationship therapist Todd Baratz, LMHC, tells mbg.
